this may sound much harsher than meant but you you have a very high social connectedness need don’t you?
I confess to being a bit lost re the Sicilian connection, so they are 2 brothers and their coach you train with in Milan and don’t have a Milanese (is that the word?) group ? 
Did you join up with them because they made you an offer you couldn’t refuse? 
:rolleyes:
Top post re CF comments.