My quick and easy most important tips would include =
Prioritize your regeneration and build it in as routinely as the training.
- slow down ( not meant to be condecending but I know it sounds this way)
- Read Speed Trap again if you have not read it yet. Learn the process which took years to develop and execute
- assist your daughter in deciding what are her goals. Softball? Prioritize and focus only on what it is you wish to accomplish.
IMO too many irons in the fire , expectations are unrealistic based on setting you and your daughter to fail not succeed and I dont hear fun anywhere in this.
I hope this comes out as constructive but do get back to us in January and tell us in a few weeks what you think.
All the best
Ange