I typically find time for my top runners each year. In 5 years, I’ve never had anyone do what happened in the past few weeks. I spend a considerable amount of time with my runners, and those married with kids, as you are, understand the tension that could result at home. Having been at this school in my 3rd year, most kids appear to feel what I do is “normal” for schools, in fact, it’s quite rare. Sometimes kids (and parents) may need a reminder of how fortunate they are to have me doing the things I do.